Treat hot porn as a casual topic

If you work in the porn industry and are in a romantic relationship with someone,  show that person this article about what to know and consider when dating a porn star. 

Porn stars are also human beings and have private lives just like us, but as you may already know, a relationship with a porn star is a little different from a typical romantic date. 

So, if you are in a romantic relationship with a porn star, keep the following in mind: 

Don’t make your partner’s job a taboo topic!

Yes,  porn stardom is just like any other job. You must prepare yourself, act like a real professional, follow the rules, and get paid at the end of the day. And just like you talk to your partner about your work day, the good and the bad,  you should also talk about your partner’s porn activities. I’m not saying you have to go into detail, but there’s no need to shame your partner because their work differs from what we’re used to. 

Pretending that hot porn doesn’t exist in your life is not the answer; it’s just a way to create and always have problems in your relationship. Accept that your partner is only in a romantic relationship with you, and her behavior is simply part of the deal. 

Leaving things unsaid leaves room for interpretation, jealousy, and imagination. Treat hot porn as a casual topic, and you’ll see that there’s no reason to feel threatened.

If you feel jealous or insecure, talk about it!

Even the most relaxed person can get jealous when they feel they must share their loved one with many others. This is a scary thing and leads to a lot of anxiety, so it is essential not to leave things as they are. Talk to your partner, share your problems and fears and be open to leaving them. And remember that you are dating her among all the men in the world. 

You are the chosen one with whom she will share intimacy, thoughts, kisses and love. 

Also, stop worrying about what your partner will do while dating. This is unhealthy and can cause significant problems in the relationship. 

Another thing you really shouldn’t do is tell her to change or stop watching hot porn. Even if you feel that you have their best interests at heart, that doesn’t mean you should interfere in their life decisions. She will stop when she feels like it or the time is right. 

Don’t sweat the small stuff too much.

If she comes home happy and smiling, don’t think too much about it. I get it. She might have had a good day and is in a good mood now. Don’t make her feel guilty about it. You don’t want her to be unhappy, do you? You love her, and you want her to enjoy her work as much as you do—and that’s all it is! 

Also, don’t be a security guard. Don’t look at her phone or face her when a customer calls her or sends her a kinky message. In her profession, happy and satisfied customers are a good source of income and a great business card to attract other customers. 

Again, I would recommend not to overthink it too much. If she gets nervous, annoyed, or refuses to have sex with you, it doesn’t automatically mean that she doesn’t love you anymore, is no longer interested in you,  or is no longer aroused by you. Maybe she’s just tired, in a bad mood, or nervous… It’s that simple. 

Support her and don’t tell others what she’s working on

What she does for a living is her job; you have no right to tell others about it. If she feels good enough to tell others about her work in hot porn, it’s her decision. Don’t force yourself with your sexy porn girlfriend in front of your friends or, on the contrary, become a crybaby and tell others about your insecurities and moral dilemmas. These are things you should discuss only with her. 

You should be her anchor, partner, and support, understanding and comforting her. This is very important to strengthen your relationship. 

Dating a sexy porn girlfriend can be a wonderful experience that will change your life, where you will learn a lot about yourself, your limitations, your insecurities, but also your true feelings. Support your partner, discuss your issues openly, be honest, and believe in yourself and what brought you two together.